what you say is what you get. talking up success.
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Neuroplasticity seems to have (at least) two meanings. One is the ability of the brain to compensate for damage. For example a person whose stroke had affected their speech could still sing. Over time their speech recovered as the part of the brain controlling singing adapted to its new function.
The second form of neuroplasticity is the ability of the brain to adapt and be influenced by the content and tone of conversation. This has implications for, and explains the reasons behind, solution focused conversations. Problem free talk, exception seeking, preferred future description and compliments all activate a set of neural pathways which can facilitate and support positive change. This is, of course, the antithesis of problem focused, pathologically past focused and negative conversations often associated with health, education, management, coaching and everyday life.
The key is language. What we say and the questions we ask are critical. Responses to noticing questions and descriptions of preferred futures have dramatically different effects on neuroplasticity to the problem focused alternatives. The specific words we use are also critical. Using ‘and’ rather than ‘but’, ‘when’ rather than ‘if’ and ‘who will’ rather that ‘will anyone’ are equally important.
Here’s a link to an article looking at the role of language in Recovery.
Please get in touch to let me know how this is useful and to offer any thoughts on solution focused practice. Please make a note of whether the response is a ‘private message’ or something to share with the community of practice.
All the best,
Steve